Cheers To The Clit
Girl Gadgets & Props: Oral Sex! The Game
Self-Love Spell: Divine Sensuality
Cheers To The Clit
Somehow I found out about International Clitoris Awareness week by someone on Facebook. Who knew there was a whole week dedicated the magick of the vagina? The week was actually celebrated May 6th-May12th, but why not keep the clit love going and flowing. A few of my sisters and I want to help you give [...]
Girl Gadgets & Props: Oral Sex! The Game
Here’s a way to make oral sex even more fun! Oral Sex! The Game has you and your boo racing around the board performing naughty acts with one another. The goal of the game is oral sex, jackpot! This is so Courtesan Coach approved. On a serious note, this game could prove to be helpful [...]
Self-Love Spell: Divine Sensuality
This following channeled magick message is inspired by The Mermaid Oracle. Mermaid magick is a wonderful way to ignite your divine feminine since they honor the feminine essence and connect us to the healing energy of water. The divine feminine is known as the Divine Self Within, the Universal Mother, or Mother Earth. When you tap [...]
Cheers To The Clit
Somehow I found out about International Clitoris Awareness week by someone on Facebook. Who knew there was a whole week dedicated the magick of the vagina? The week was actually celebrated May 6th-May12th, but why not keep the clit love going and flowing. A few of my sisters and I want to help you give your clit some serious love, so let’s get this party started.
Since I know that you are a woman on the go, I decided to give you a few quick ways to celebrate your clitoral area this week. You can either celebrate in a ceremony or two by yourself or if you have a partner get him/her in on the celebration. What’s not to love about some good pussy worship?! Can I get a meow?!
Get Your Masturbation & In-Since May is Masturbation Month, it seems like a good month to make love to yourself. When was the last time that you got yourself off? You should make love to yourself as a way to check in with yourself and discover every inch of your pussy power. You may find new ways to discover pleasure.If you are shy to get down in your business,know that masturbation is nothing to be ashamed. What else are your two hands for?
Read “Women’s Anatomy of Arousal”- This book is a good one for your books elf when it comes to women’s sexuality written by Sherri Winston. If you ever had a question about anything, this book is a go to resource for you. The first chapter is called “Welcome to the Yoniverse”, now we are talking. Packed with historical information to how to a woman’s anatomy works, you will get a better understand how to get down and deep with your own arousal and pleasure.
Get a new girl gadget- Have you had your eye on a toy for awhile, promising yourself that you will get it one day. Well, sisterfriend, the day has come, to give yourself the pleasure that you deserve. There are two luxury items that I recommend to get your clit going : Pyxis Finger Massager or the G Twist Smartvibes.
The Pyxis Finger Massager is fabulous because it is eco friendly, portable, and packed with five vibrations to get you off. This gadget is discreet and gives you pleasure in the most delightful way. Then there is The G Twist Smartvibes is eco erotic for being green and made of medical grade silicone.There are 8 functions to get you going purrfect for your G-spot.
Now get down to business and show your clit some LOVE!
Check out the all of the other fabulous ladies who are a party of this #clitparty!
- Kitt Crescendo – The Inner Wildcat
- August McLaughlin – Savor the Storm
- Lana Fox, via Go Deeper Press
- Ande Lyons, via Bring Back Desire
Girl Gadgets & Props: Oral Sex! The Game
Here’s a way to make oral sex even more fun! Oral Sex! The Game has you and your boo racing around the board performing naughty acts with one another. The goal of the game is oral sex, jackpot! This is so Courtesan Coach approved.
On a serious note, this game could prove to be helpful for those of you who need an extra push when it comes to oral sex. If you are already into oral, this just adds a little more naughty fun.
This game comes with a board and lube. This gives a whole new meaning to game night.
Self-Love Spell: Divine Sensuality
This following channeled magick message is inspired by The Mermaid Oracle. Mermaid magick is a wonderful way to ignite your divine feminine since they honor the feminine essence and connect us to the healing energy of water. The divine feminine is known as the Divine Self Within, the Universal Mother, or Mother Earth. When you tap into the divine feminine you get a soul spark filled with a whole lot of love, unlimited wisdom, heaping of healing, guidance, and so much more.
The card selected is: Divine Sensuality
There are times in a woman’s live that she need’s a reminder to check in with her sensuality, so consider this message a gentle tap on the shoulder. The mermaids are divine proctors of sexuality and power so their message is one filled with light. This card is here to show you that it is time to focus on making love, sensual play, erotica, and pleasure. Free yourself up from old ideas and fulfill desires that you have locked away inside of you. Unleash the: courtesan, witch, siren, kitten, vixen or seductress inside of you as she is ready to come out to play in the world.
What are your rituals that conjure up your senses? Conjure up ways to do these rituals on a daily basis. Have a shorter version of the ritual for those busy days and nights. If you do not have any rituals create some that will leave your senses satisfied. As you perform your rituals, think positive thoughts, think words of love, and see things as your heart desires. Recite words of love to cast a spell.
You could also use this for your spell:
I love myself
I love my body exactly as it is
I am sensual and sexy as I am
I am divine, self love is mine
I am enough
Blessed be the all that is within me
It does not matter when you are seeing this message, you are seeing it at the exact moment that you need it. There are no coincidence. This message will hit you where it needs to. May it conjure sensual sensations that are magickal of you.
Art of the Courtesan
Congrats to Halle Berry and Oliver Martinez, Berry is 3 months pregnant with their baby! Her rep has confirmed it. It’s a major modern courtesan move since Berry is 46. Some women are opting to get pregnant after 40, rock on ladies. If you can then do!
I have a feeling that the Berry and Martinez baby mix is gonna be awesome!
Angel of Alchemy
I am so excited about my new oracle deck “Oracle of Shadows and Light” by Lucy Cavendish. What took me by surprise was the Angel of Alchemy card, she looks like the “fallen angel” that came to visit me a few weeks ago. I am so attracted to this card and the meaning. It has miracle written at the bottom of it. Can’t wait to do readings with the deck. Be on the look out for weekly oracle card readings on the Courtesan Charm College TV channel on YouTube.
Make Love To Me Mole Sauce
Mexican food is some of my favorite foods to eat. Growing up in Texas, amazing Mexican food was easy to find, which makes me picky about my Tex Mex. New York is finally getting it’s share of good Mexican food restaurants but there is still something special about making it at home.
When I saw the sensual movie “Like Water For Chocolate”, it made me think of Mexican food in a whole other way. It was one of the sexiest food movies that I had ever seen. If you haven’t seen the movie you should if you appreciate how sexy and sensual food can be. It is about a woman who can’t physically be with the woman that he loves, she cools as a way to stay connected to him.
You can reenact some of the sexy scenes from the movie with this easy to whip it up and throw it on some chicken, welcome the orgasmic on your palate.
Make Love To Me Mole Sauce
5 dried ancho dried chiles
1/3 cup sliced almonds
1 onion, chopped
1-2 tomatoes, peeled, seeded and chopped
1 tablespoon toasted sesame seeds
1 clove garlic, chopped
¼ teaspoon each: cinnamon, ground cloves, dried oregano, powdered cumin, ground coriander, ground anise seeds
3/4 teaspoon salt, or to taste
freshly ground pepper
1 cup water (or as needed)
1 oz unsweetened chocolate, melted
Soak chiles in very hot water until soft, about 30 minutes or so.
In a small skillet, sauté onion in vegetable oil until soft and translucent. Add garlic and sauté another minute. Add spices and herbs and cook, stirring constantly, for about 30 seconds, being careful not to let them burn.
In a blender, grind together almonds, cooked onions, tomatoes, spices, sesame seeds, salt, pepper, and water. Puree until you get a smooth texture.
Remove seeds and stems from the chiles and puree very finely, passing the chiles through a food mill. Puree through a mesh strainer to make remove any of the skins. Blend the chile paste into the mole along with the melted chocolate and add water, as necessary, until the consistency is smooth and slightly pourable. Refrigerator until ready to use.
If you are looking for more sexy Mexican, check out the recipe for the Chocolate Margarita. It is a smooth and sexy cocktail that you will love.
Art of the Courtesan
So Helena Bonham Carter made it on the worst dressed list, but this is actually one of her best outfits in a long time. She rocks it the way that she wants, that is how a modern courtesan rolls.
Kim Kardashian is so starting to show, what do you think about these pants. Some people say fugly? Kim may need to do shopping because her tight clothes may not be so fashionable as she continues to get bigger.
This is not how a modern courtesan should roll, Jwoww, as in wow..her surgical scars were showing. Not a good look at all. Maybe she doesn’t give a hoot!
Ann Taylor Spring Preview 2013
I was invited to the Ann Taylor Spring Preview which was a treat. They always treat us to goodies like champagne, nosh, and coffee, plus a goodie bag with some of their delicious things for the season.
Once again I was impressed with what they have coming out for the season. I love how they have stepped up with game. My favorite look was the polka dots and stripes.
Overcome Sexual Shyness
I am pleased as punch to bring you a sponsored post by Astroglide. I am a big fan of the product, so much so that I promote Astroglide in my Courtisane Moderne Pleasure Salons where I present luxury pleasure items.
Are you shy in the boudoir? It’s time to overcome that shyness so that you can experience more pleasure. I know that can sound easier than it is, but where there is a will there is always a way.
Astroglide’s Sexual Wellness Ambassador Dr. Yvonne Fulbright has some tips for you to help you overcome sexual shyness. Dr. Fulbright is a friend to my radio show and she is always spot on with her information.
Tip 1: Analyze what’s holding you back so that you have a good sense – vs. a general sense – of the barriers you need to overcome in claiming your sexual self and sex life.
Tip 2: Get to know yourself. It’s hard to express yourself or let a lover know your likes and what you want unless you take the time for self-exploration first. So take the time to masturbate. Experiment with different sexual enhancements. Read erotica for inspiration re: scenarios. Flirt with different ways to get turned on, to seduce, and begin the process of foreplay. You will feel more self-assured in providing instruction, even if it’s non-verbal.
Tip 3: Boost your body image. For some, the biggest challenge to getting in a sexy state of mind and letting that be known is how a woman feels about her body. This also goes for those who seemingly have the “best” bodies. You can start feeling better about your form with regular exercise (as this has mental health perks as well), eating healthy meals, avoiding toxins, and shutting down negative self-talk. Do things that make you feel good about the skin you’re in, like yoga, getting a massage, or wearing clothes that feel like they were made for you.
Tip 4: Determine if your issues require extra assistance. If, for example, you’re shy about sex b/c of religious messages you received growing up or because of self esteem, then working through such issues with a certified sex therapist or sex coach ( like me) will do you a world of good.
If you have questions about overcoming sexual shyness send in a question to Ask Yvonne a question for the Astroglide site.
You do not have to take my word for how fabulous Astroglide is, you can try for yourself. They are giving away sample, get yourself one!
Art of the Courtesan-January 21, 2013
It’s nice to see celebrities relaxed every once in awhile. Minka Kelly and Mandy Moore had brunch and did it casual courtesan style. You can still be sexy and rock casual clothes.
Drew Barrymore has come a long way baby and I do mean baby. She seems very centered now that she is mother to cutie pie, Olive.
One thing is for sure, that our First Lady Michelle Obama and Second Lady, Jill Biden, rocked it out in their coats at the inauguration. It is hard to say which coat was the top choice. Maybe it depends on style and what mood you are in. Either way, both coats are courtesan coach approved!
Adorable modern courtesan, Jessica Alba, did it in style by going to Fashion Week in Paris. It is sexy city that should be on any lady’s list. Check out the sassy black coat that Alba is rocking. One of her stops was the Dior Haute show, oh la la!
